Self Suffering

Let go of the helm as there is a greater power at the wheel. One that cannot be seen with eyes, but of the spirit.

We as people are formed from reality. This is important for you to understand. You are formed FROM reality. If you are alive and in a room that has 4 walls and nothing else and you grow up to be an old person and you suddenly come out of the box and are introduced to sound, light, people and life outside of yourself and your box you will immediately take some in. A person that wants reality to remain as it has been known for all their life will want to return to the box to remain unchanged. The person that wants to change and understand all the new information will then be remolded into a new being outside that box as all the information of each new moment of life is being formed INTO you. You are what you understand and everything you understand is in reality and now a part of you. You are one with it and can enjoy being a part of the changes it goes through, or you can love yourself more than loving reality by trying to change it to be what you understand while you remain unchanged.
Who are you? Change is the most beautiful thing about existence. Who you are and what you become is everything you become from your surroundings if it is a box with no light and sound or if its the world which is this planet which is a ball with elements, lights and sounds. Either way, you are what you understand. The focus of this topic is to let you see that you can open the mind to everything around you and become one with it, or you can have human resistance to it for not being what you want it to be or on the terms of your understanding. This results in self suffering. I call this "suffering one's own existence." If you feel hate, anger, jealousy or any other human emotion, then you are suffering your own existence. This suffering is perfectly normal. The emotions are results of your understanding of what you see. What you see is limited and not what you want it to be because it doesn't comply with your reality as it should be so you suffer being in your own existence. The meaning behind a suffering is a truth that is not described in words.

My wife goes to work and is a beautiful person. She is not in the least bit thinking anything about her beauty because she has expressed to me it is not important, but it is something a woman wants to feel about themselves. My wife is spotted by another woman that is comparing things and tauting my wife expressing things in words that might make another person mad. Choice comments used are similiar to this; "I bought a new purse, do you want to see it? You can't afford a new purse. You're not that pretty." The comments go on and on. There is a meaning in those words that are not words but can be described in words. The comments indicated that the person wishes they were pretty. They also expressed they are interested in having more money than they have. This type of truth is the underlying truth that isn't words, but is covered up in expression. Everyone in reality can only talk of their own reality. In this way, they project their reality outward for others to see through expression. This projection of self into reality is demanding of reality to see what they want reality to see of self. You cannot bend reality. It has laws and rules and that projection of self by saying comments to others is a person trying to bend reality through the projection of self. That's impossible. These comments are expressions of people who do not see or love others more than themself. They want things from reality but do not understand the rules. They suffer their own existence. Go outside the box and try to understand reality. If everyone was a CEO of a company that commanded others to do their work then there would be no employees. For change to take place, someone must do the work that is being asked of them from someone else.

Changing your understanding is ultimately changing yourself which is your reality, which is this reality. Learn the rules of engagement and you can learn to change reality to what you want it to become, rather than telling it how it should be subservient to your understanding and ultimately serve you. "With" and "for" are different in meaning.