Sunday, November 30, 2008

Believe Everything

Everything is true and exists. How and where it exists is what one needs to see to understand this meaning. Understand the creativity and beauty of everything and you will realize that everything is perfect. Since everything is perfect and exists, you should believe it. To elaborate lets look at something you see on television. You watch a monster movie and you say there are no such things as monsters. Well the creativity of that monster can be found somewhere in reality. Every aspect of the monster exists. Sharp teeth or fangs meant for biting meat exists somewhere. Blood drinking exists. Slime and the purpose of slime exists. The feeling of touching slime and the disgust with certain things exist. Disappearing from one place to another in a fast way exists as in when you see an object on a table and it was moved by someone else without your knowledge it seems to have disappeared. The explanation of ghosts as in dreams and faintly visible and transluscent objects exist. The mind is very creative but everything exists. This knowledge makes watching a movie interesting in how a persons creativity has gone outside the box to take elements from reality and used them in a creative way. This makes that reality a real collaboration of things that are real. You can only use reality in reality. Everythign exists and we didn't create it. We make a table from wood and think we made a table. Reshaping of wood is just on the surface. The wood and everything that existed to make that table of wood is simply utilizing what exists and changing its surface shape. The wood is a part of this reality and exists and we should appreciate that it was there for us to use rather than using it and thinking you controlled it and made it. You simply use it and change things about it and if it wasn't there you wouldn't be able to use it.
Taking that principle and understanding it is now going to lead to a new understanding. Everything exists, so believe everything and understand the changes it went through. Everything that exists is beautiful. Nothing is wrong but rather different. That is the beauty of this existence. The diversity of existence that came from an infinite world of changes that is continually changing creating new properties of existence.

The first thing most people do when hearing the comment to believe everything is they want to jump into expressing that lies exist and we shouldn't believe that either. This is just looking at the surface and overlooking meaning. A lie is nothing more than a recreation of things that exist in reality but constructed in a way that is no different than a movie director. Who knows, the talents of a liar may be a good movie creator or book writer if the liar is showed what those talents can do and then given the resources to do it. To attain that level of creativity will require a lot of good creativity because there are a lot of creative people out there, but always room for more. A fictional movie is a creation of a lie, so what's the difference. A person creating a reality can only create that reality from reality, it's up to you to understand the truth of the reality and the changes that take place to lead up to that reality. Even the lie is true. If a person takes money from your wallet then says he didn't when questioned about it, the lie he told isn't a lie but a story of a different reality that he wishes you to see his way. The lie is true in meaning when the meaning is understood as this, "You are to see a reality that I thought up to cover up the real events of reality." That is the meaning of a lie, but getting someone to admit the real reality is going to take a change from the person within themselves to tell the real reality. Usually the understanding on part of the deciever that others are aware of the real events can persuade one to speak the real reality. Some things in reality are going to be obvious and others will take much more understanding to become obvious. You must believe the truth of others because other reality is possible and true and a person can tell a truth that is called a lie because the person listening is unaware of the possibility of the truth being told to them. This is how a person refuses to become aware of reality by basing it on limited understanding. This becomes confrontational and leads to self suffering.

Everything exists so believe everything, simply understand how and where it exists and realize the meaning in it. Furthermore, realize the creativity and beauty in the reality as everything is real, everything is beautiful and so everything is perfect. If you understand the meaning of this you are released from your self suffering. You may not understand everything, but who in the world does? Just try to understand it and enjoy the beauty of everything that surrounds us and exists.

Sunday, November 2, 2008

Self Suffering

Let go of the helm as there is a greater power at the wheel. One that cannot be seen with eyes, but of the spirit.

We as people are formed from reality. This is important for you to understand. You are formed FROM reality. If you are alive and in a room that has 4 walls and nothing else and you grow up to be an old person and you suddenly come out of the box and are introduced to sound, light, people and life outside of yourself and your box you will immediately take some in. A person that wants reality to remain as it has been known for all their life will want to return to the box to remain unchanged. The person that wants to change and understand all the new information will then be remolded into a new being outside that box as all the information of each new moment of life is being formed INTO you. You are what you understand and everything you understand is in reality and now a part of you. You are one with it and can enjoy being a part of the changes it goes through, or you can love yourself more than loving reality by trying to change it to be what you understand while you remain unchanged.
Who are you? Change is the most beautiful thing about existence. Who you are and what you become is everything you become from your surroundings if it is a box with no light and sound or if its the world which is this planet which is a ball with elements, lights and sounds. Either way, you are what you understand. The focus of this topic is to let you see that you can open the mind to everything around you and become one with it, or you can have human resistance to it for not being what you want it to be or on the terms of your understanding. This results in self suffering. I call this "suffering one's own existence." If you feel hate, anger, jealousy or any other human emotion, then you are suffering your own existence. This suffering is perfectly normal. The emotions are results of your understanding of what you see. What you see is limited and not what you want it to be because it doesn't comply with your reality as it should be so you suffer being in your own existence. The meaning behind a suffering is a truth that is not described in words.

My wife goes to work and is a beautiful person. She is not in the least bit thinking anything about her beauty because she has expressed to me it is not important, but it is something a woman wants to feel about themselves. My wife is spotted by another woman that is comparing things and tauting my wife expressing things in words that might make another person mad. Choice comments used are similiar to this; "I bought a new purse, do you want to see it? You can't afford a new purse. You're not that pretty." The comments go on and on. There is a meaning in those words that are not words but can be described in words. The comments indicated that the person wishes they were pretty. They also expressed they are interested in having more money than they have. This type of truth is the underlying truth that isn't words, but is covered up in expression. Everyone in reality can only talk of their own reality. In this way, they project their reality outward for others to see through expression. This projection of self into reality is demanding of reality to see what they want reality to see of self. You cannot bend reality. It has laws and rules and that projection of self by saying comments to others is a person trying to bend reality through the projection of self. That's impossible. These comments are expressions of people who do not see or love others more than themself. They want things from reality but do not understand the rules. They suffer their own existence. Go outside the box and try to understand reality. If everyone was a CEO of a company that commanded others to do their work then there would be no employees. For change to take place, someone must do the work that is being asked of them from someone else.

Changing your understanding is ultimately changing yourself which is your reality, which is this reality. Learn the rules of engagement and you can learn to change reality to what you want it to become, rather than telling it how it should be subservient to your understanding and ultimately serve you. "With" and "for" are different in meaning.

Everything In Reality Is Perfect

Everything in life is perfect. How it is perfect may not be known or understood. There are connections of events which are going to happen perfectly. The interesting things is everything is connected some kind of way and has to happen exactly perfect. This happening is someone's reality coming real. The transition or transactions that occur to make them emanate in this reality is a chain of events that can occur in a second or up to a lifetime.

When one realizes something one usually looks at the closely related events that created the thought that resulted in an understanding. Some related occurrences might be connected through a series of events that take place over months and years or even over lifetimes. We don't see that far into reality and do not understand the reason or chain of events. Some things that should have occured don't occur because one might be changing reality so much that they prevent what could have occured from happening through self projection into reality. Those actions of self projection are perfect as well. Struggling with understanding these events can lead to a person trying to change events of reality that are supposed to occur rather than accepting the events that occur. In this way, I realized that everyday is a perfect day and everything going on is for a reason or with purpose. This gives a meaning to all things. Meaningfulness in ones life is then understood or simply accepted because sometimes you just accept those things you do not understand, but the comfort of life is there much like a child is comfortable in a parents arms. We may not understand that, but to understand the meaning that everything has meaning and purpose is a way of accepting reality and not resisting the reality of life or attempting to break it's laws which is fruitless since they can't be broken. This is a way to be happy and not ruin a perfect day. The perfect day isn't ruined. It's always perfect.

I woke up and was planning a perfectly happy day of events to do with my son or let him do what he wanted to. This perfect day was going to happen. He had been asked to do his chores and then he can entertain himself with TV. When I was done with my tasks I was going to invite him to build a composter with me. I found he did very poorly at his chores and went right to the entertainment. Having given him many coaching on cleaning and encouragement towards becoming a clean person, he wished to be himself and lead a lazy lifestyle. After asking him about this, he became confrontational. His day was not going to go that way, so he ended up feeling his day was ruined because he was confronting his failure to contribute to the lifestyle of the family environment. He can't see the family system. He only sees himself and his own interest. This selfishness is a separation from reality rather than living within reality. I explained that he changed the reality that could have happened. In fact, every day is a perfect day waiting to happen, but to resist reality by doing something for self, which is a way of self projection, is going to result in a alteration of reality. This alteration of reality results in events that change what should have happened to a newly created reality that responded to his selfishness, thus you create your own reality. The new reality created by an individual is now the new path of reality which had an infinite ways of going which changed everything. The entire path of one's reality can be changed in a second or over a lifetime.

"Live and love life and all is well. It's meaning is meaningful. Understand it and it will have meaning to you." - J. Stallings

These things that happened are perfect. What related events are happening to make the perfect thing happen in this reality? Whose reality is being answered in these events and what connection does this event have to the events that are going to happen, but needed this event to happen to become true in the events to come? What reality is taking shape? It may not be an immediate change that is happening for an immediate event only. It's association may be 10 years down the line and won't happen without this event happening. Thus, all things in reality are exactly perfect. For it's purpose and meaning may not be known or understood and that is our limitation. God's understanding goes way beyond ours and all this reality is happening within the rules and laws of reality, however they are interconnected. It is so, thus it is. Love all at all times and you will be happy with reality for it all has a purpose and is perfect.